Sunday, April 19, 2009

True Love

True Love means different things to different people. but all I know is that once you have and feel true love, that feeling doesn't go away, and if you try to act like it did go away and you push away the feelings, it is just going to make things worse.

True love is always thinking about someone else and always wondering not just what they are doing and how they feel and things like that. From the time you wake up until you fall asleep, you are always thinking about the other person. You wonder how there day is going, you wonder if they are smiling or not, you want to know every detail about there day and their life. Sometimes you think about your friends or family and wonder that stuff, but this is a different type of thinking. This is wondering how their morning went before they left to work, and you want to call them and just talk to them and see how they are and make sure they are happy. True love is wanting to hear every detail about their life and day, and no matter how much you talk to that person, it is never enough and you always want to talk to them and be with them more. True love is looking at a picture and having it make you think of that person, not just think, oh this picture makes me think of that person, but seeing it, smiling, and getting a good happy feeling all over your body.

Sometimes a certain song will be playing where you are, or a show or movie will be playing and it will remind you of a time in your life and it may make you smile or trigger a diff. emotion and make you think of an event or a person, but its a quick thought, and then you just move on. True love is hearing that same song or seeing that same show and having it make you not only think about the person you love, but makes you smile and feels good inside, and it makes you want to call that person and just tell them that you are happy and that you were thinking about them.

Sexually, true love will make any relationship better. Anyone can be in a relationship, and anyone can hook up. When people hook up, it is obv. going to feel good for both people, but it is just hooking up. If you really like someone, the hooking up gets a little better and there is more openness and it starts to feel better. When there is true love between 2 people, it makes the hooking up something that cant even be truly described in words. The closeness that 2 people can feel towards each other, makes hooking up so much better. True Love makes you want the other person so bad, that every time you are around them you want to rip their clothes off and just be with them. It makes you want to turn the other person on, just because you want them to feel good also. True love makes it so two people can lay in bed together, and they don't even need to hook up to feel the love and closeness. Just being able to lie with someone and hold each other in your arms, is just a good as a feeling as the actual hooking up.

True love is a great feeling, but as high as you can get on that feeling, it is also the worst feeling in the world when you had the true love, and now it is gone. The upside of that, is that if it was real and true love, then no matter where the two people go in their separate lives, that true love will not go away, and the closeness and the feelings that are there will always be there.

1 comment:

Jason Levy said...

As I think more about this, I realize that the down side of true love is that when you are that close to someone, it means that you can get hurt way more. The thing about true love is that it never goes away, so even when little things happen or something comes up, it hurts you way more and makes you even sadder, bc you still have so much love and feelings, it makes you so much more open to getting hurt.