What I truly want

What I truly want out of a relationship is pretty simple. I want to be happy and I want to find someone to be happy with. I want to be able to have the person I am dating, also be one of my best friends, not just my girlfriend. Of course there are other things that go into it, but those are mainly superficial, and I don't really have a certain style or taste. A lot of my friends like a certain type of body build, or certain color eyes or hair or something along those lines. I guess for me that stuff is not nearly important as the personality and the ability for the girl to not only have a good time with me, but be happy with herself. I want the person I am dating to be the first person I think about when I wake up and the last before I go to sleep. I want to talk to them all the time during the day. I don't mean talk to them for ever, but I want to be able to talk to them or email them whenever something happens, even if it is so little, I want to talk to her. That may seen weird and cheesy, but I just feel like if you are dating someone, they should also be one of your best friends.

I see so many people that are dating just to date and just to be with someone, when they are not even that close and both people know that eventually it won't work, but they still stay dating just to do it.

As I read this is sounds like part of a giant personal ad, but really the last two months has shown me a lot both in my life, and with what and who my friends choose to date, about who I am and what I am looking for and also what type of people my friends are and what they are looking for.